ci: reach the shared tooling via a lib_bespok3d submodule - #3

Node.js 20 is deprecated. The following actions target Node.js 20 but are being forced to run on Node.js 24: actions/checkout@v4, actions/setup-node@v4, actions/upload-artifact@v4, crazy-max/ghaction-github-runtime@v3, docker/setup-buildx-action@v3. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2025-09-19-deprecation-of-node-20-on-github-actions-runners/